Showing posts with label thank you. Show all posts
Showing posts with label thank you. Show all posts

Monday, September 28, 2015

A sight for sore eyes

One of the benefits of being an early riser is seeing beauty like this. Is it not a sight for sore eyes?

Practising gratitude in the morning can have a profound effect on the rest of your day. I don't mean mindlessly listing what you're thankful for, but feeling each thing deeply.
Sending positive energy out to the world is really uplifting. It works like a boomerang. What you send out will always come back to you.

If you're alive & reading this, you already have at least 10 things to say THANK YOU for.

Turn your stressing into a blessing.
Have a beautiful day! Love ❤


Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Kindness

Kindness....

It is something which is often underrated & can be expressed in different forms.
A kind word.
A kind gesture.

It may mean something so small and perhaps insignificant to the giver, but to the receiver, it could be life-changing.

Being kind means caring deeply for those around you. It is being loyal & helpful, without expecting to gain from your actions.

It is not putting up a facade to those around you...pretending to like or care for your peers. This falseness eventually catches up & you may end up exposed, baring your true colours.

We all make mistakes in life. Mistakes can lead to regret, anger and possibly self-loathing.
This is wrong.
Be kind to yourself.
You're only human.

Life would be meaningless if it weren't for all these potholes. Its purpose? To test our patience & resilience.

...and then be kind to those who did you wrong. Our path crossings are inevitable & those who have hurt us in any way need to be treated with [genuine] kindess.

I have learned that kindess is the best form of forgiveness.

Thursday, April 24, 2014

Thankful Thursday Thoughts

Feeling intense gratitude (and a bit emotional) after reading a farewell message from a student.

My Thankful Thursday Thoughts:

Like I say to my students, "Before you're a student, you're a person" , before I'm a teacher, I'm human too!

I sometimes forget this. During the day, I wear many caps & often find myself fluttering about about - without a minute to waste.

My students' success & happiness is my priority. Why? Because I know the sacrifices they made to be here, the nerves of steel they have to endure for exams & so much more.

Sometimes I feel helpless & wish for extra time, extra eyes, extra ears, extra arms...so I can make miracles happen for my students - like getting acceptance at university or a hospital they wish to work at.

But I can't perform miracles ;)

I give my all to what I do & am immensely grateful for the opportunity to work with / for beautiful people.

I wish I can thank each person individually here, who today, touched my heart & lifted my spirits.

Thank you.
Thank you for your trust, respect & love.
This is from my heart to yours.

Sunday, March 23, 2014

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

This is taken from one of my Secret Scrolls emails about gratitude:

Begin your day by feeling grateful. Be grateful for the bed you just slept in, the roof over your head, the carpet or floor under your feet, the running water, the soap, your shower, your toothbrush, your clothes, your shoes, the refrigerator that keeps your food cold, the car that you drive, your job, your friends. Be grateful for the stores that make it so easy to buy the things you need, the restaurants, the utilities, services, and electrical appliances that make your life effortless. Be grateful for the magazines and the books that you read. Be grateful for the chair that you sit on, and the pavement that you walk on. Be grateful for the weather, the sun, the sky, the birds, the trees, the grass, the rain, and the flowers.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!

Friday, June 1, 2012

What is Gratitude?

A year ago, I used to dread waking up every morning. Being unemployed has been one of the most difficult things I've had to endure. Apart from being financially dependent on my parents, I felt juvenile and worthless. All I wanted was a chance, yet every opening I seemed to find kept closing up on me.

Many wouldn't believe me when I say that for months after arriving back from Korea, I saw no colour. Everything seemed grey through my eyes. As much as I wanted to feel grateful for all that I DID have, I still felt worthless and rejected. I had no idea that being unemployed would have such a crippling effect on me.

Today, the 1st of June, reminds me of how far I have come in the past year.

I am thrilled to write that these days I can't wait to wake up in the morning. My alarm goes off at 04:30 and I feel excited to get my day started.

Once again, I am able to appreciate the breathtaking sunrises and sunsets, the birds chirping and the waft of ocean air that fills my apartment in the wee hours of the morning.

I'm overflowing with gratitude and as a result, my senses are awake and alive. I wake up with a purpose now. Every morning, my colleagues expect to see me in the staff room and my +/- 25 students expect me to teach them everyday.
I'm thankful every single day that not only do I have a job, but that I'm doing something that I truly enjoy putting my heart into. I'm grateful for the opportunity to provide a service to others and that by doing so, I'm meeting people from all walks of life. I love that I'm learning just as much, if not more, as what I teach everyday.

So as this day comes to an end, I'd like to shout it out to the universe that I'm grateful for the opportunities, challenges and obstacles I've faced up to now. I also feel grateful for being rejected for work last year, most of which I doubt I'd be half as happy as I am today.

Also, credit must be given where it's due, and I have to say that nothing would be possible without the support - on so many levels - of my parents whom I love with my heart & soul!

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Thankful Thursday

I'm thankful for:

  • ...my health
  • ...to have two healthy parents and brother
  • ...to have food to eat everyday
  • ...to have clean clothes to wear everyday
  • ...to have running water to take showers everyday
  • ...having a clean and warm bed to sleep in every night
  • ...landing a temp job
  • ....friends I chat to on a regular basis - Chetan, Lanese, Colleta, Yogita
  • ...Carmen & Farhad for the Diwali dinner last week and for being wonderful friends.
  • ...My brother, for always being there for a laugh.
What are you thankful for today/this week?

A thankful heart is not only the greatest virtue, but the parent of all other virtues. -Cicero

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Teaching Tuesday: (TEFL) Thanking Activities

As someone who promotes giving thanks as often as possible, I was happy to come across this article by Alex Case:

Thanking Activities

Entertaining ways to practise expressing gratitude.

1. Who am I thanking?
Students are given a list of people that they might want to thank, e.g. Santa Claus, their parents, the postman and Walt Disney. They choose one of the people and thank them with phrases like “Thanks for working so hard” and “Thank you for coming all this way” (for Santa) until their partner guesses who they are thanking.

2. Real thanks
Students think of things that they can really thank each other for, e.g. “Thank you for usually answering the teacher’s grammar questions” and “Thanks for being so patient with me when I couldn’t think of a word.” This is good to do at the end of a course.

3. Thank you, really
In groups of three or four, two students take turns thanking each other, choosing any subjects they like e.g. “Thanks for lending me your dictionary last week” and “I’m so grateful to you for introducing me to my wife”. When they have finished, the people who have been listening to them try to guess which of the thanks (if any) are for things the other person really did. This works best if the people thanking each other know each other fairly well.

4. No no no, thank YOU
Students compete to thank the other person more than they are being thanked. This could be:
  • Thanking each other for different things (real or imaginary) until one of them runs out of ideas
  • Thanking each other with more and more passionate, longer or polite phrases
  • Thanking each other for bigger and bigger (probably imaginary) things, such as giving them a job and saving their child’s life, until they can’t get any bigger

5. Thanking roleplays
One possibility is just to ask students to imagine they are in situations in which they will probably need to thank people, e.g. leaving their host family, in a newsagent’s or after hospitality from a business contact abroad. Making these realistic is obviously useful, but you can also make them more fun by adding some more unlikely ones like “Thank your boss for saving your life during the team bonding mountain climbing session and try to find a way of repaying him/ her”. You could also tell them how many times they have to use thanking phrases before they are allowed to finish the roleplay, e.g. six times between them for the newsagent situation.

6. You call that thanking?
Give students many different examples of mess ups in the language of thanking, e.g. “Thank you for coming”/ “You’re welcome” (It should be “Thanks for inviting me”), flat intonation, and “I am very gratitude”. They must identify and correct the mistake each time

7. Answering thanks
Students match thanking sentences and responses, e.g. “I’ve photocopied last week’s notes for you.” with “Thanks, that’s a great help.” and “I’m afraid I can’t”/ “Thanks anyway”. To make it more interesting you can give it to them as a pairwork dictation or cut up into little pieces of paper.

8. Thank you for the music
There are plenty of songs which are about thanking people, e.g. the Abba song with the title of this section. You can do all the usual song activities such as gapfills, or you could give them two different thanking songs on mixed up slips of paper to sort out, put in order, and then listen and check.

9. Thank you for the dialogue
There are also plenty of scenes in movies and television programmes where people thank each other, e.g. thanking a mafia godfather for a favour, a woman thanking the queen for sparing her husband from the executioner, or an old woman thanking a policeman who has just saved her cat. You could give the students part of the dialogue and ask them to guess the situation, relationships and what they are thanking them before they watch and check.

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

10-year Reunion: Grateful


Leaving Founders Day, I was overwhelmed with a sense of gratitude. Clarendon is an institution that Im so proud to have been part of.

First and foremost, I was grateful to my parents for recognizing what an excellent school Clarendon was and still is.  They knew that by enrolling me at Clarendon Prep, I would be taught the best life lessons and be introduced to opportunities that I may not have been exposed to elsewhere.

For my entire school career, I felt like I was constantly nurtured under the loving care of my teachers. 

It was the encouragement of my English teachers that fueled my love for the language and ultimately lead me to explore the wondrous world of words.  My very first piece that was published in an anthology of verse was a poem I wrote in Std 2 called "My Secret Garden". This was the beginning and I am proud to say that I have had my writing published in local and international publications - enforcing my belief that I can spread whatever message I wish through the written word. My love for English also led to my career choice in teaching English to foreigners.

I was a bit of an introvert growing up and was a bit hesitant to take risks and challenges, but in Grade 10 I felt like I went through my own metamorphosis. I joined the Forum Discussion team, the school magazine, Interact and other clubs and societies. It was through these platforms that I developed confidence in developing my voice. Above all, I developed leadership skills.

With their guidance and caring attitude, teachers like Mrs Felton, Miss Rose, Mrs Edwards, Mr Deutschmann and so many others, my wings had fully grown by the time the end of my matric year came by.  

Biology was my weakest subject and I was sure I was not going to pass with good enough grades to enrol at a university.  The day I went to collect my results from school with my mum, I cried tears of joy. Months of hard work, studying and tutoring had paid off and I passed with good grades. I now have a Bachelor of Journalism from Rhodes University. Something I never thought would be possible!

Ten years later, I am still very good friends with many of the girls I met at Clarendon High School...including those from Sub B!

Thank you, mum and dad for choosing Clarendon as my education foundation. Thank you to the dozens of teachers who believed in me. Thank you to all the friends I made.  Without you all, I know for sure that I would not be the person I have turned out to be.

If I can give any piece of advice to current Clarendonians, it would be...

"Don't for a single second take any opportunity you have for granted. Respect your teachers and recognize that they are very special people who take on many different forms to ensure that you will leave the school successful and ready for the world. Don't wait till your reunion to come back to school and realize what a fine institution you were part of. Know it now. When you look around at the lack of education in our country and the children who would give anything to be in your place - even sitting on those hard, wooden floors, appreciate that you are one of the most privileged people to be receiving education of such caliber."

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Thankful Thursday


I know my blog has collected cobwebs. I haven't done this in weeks...months! However, it doesn't meat that just because I haven't verbalized it, that I haven't been saying silent prayers of gratitude.

I'm thankful for:
  • ...my health
  • ...to have two healthy parents and brother
  • ...to have food to eat everyday
  • ...to have clean clothes to wear everyday
  • ...to have running water to take showers everyday
  • ...having a clean and warm bed to sleep in every night
  • ...my mum healing after being hospital.
  • ...my mum and dad for their immense help in my settling in CT.
  • ...my dad for giving me the best birthday gift today :)
  • ...Vijayan inviting us to celebrate his birthday with him and his family last night.
  • ...Whoever called or e-mailed alerting me about my e-mail hack last week, especially Bazil.
What are you thankful for today/this week?

A thankful heart is not only the greatest virtue, but the parent of all other virtues. -Cicero

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

International Thank You Day

Today - Tuesday, January 11 2011 (1/11/11) was International Thank You Day.  Every Thursday I write a post on my blog titled Thankful Thursday where I reflect on the past week and show my gratitude to people and things in my life. This week, because of it being Thank You Day, I'll list things that I'm thankful for :)

Thank you...

...to my parents: for giving my brother and I the best opportunities in life to better ourselves.
...to my brother for not only being a brother, but a very cool friend :)
...to God for my health, as well as my parents and brother's health.
...Sylvia, our maid for taking care of our house as if it were her own.
...to my friends for being a part of my life.
...to YOU for reading my blog :)

There's so much more I could write and thank people for, but more on that later this week!

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Any words you speak have a frequency



Any words you speak have a frequency, and the moment you speak them they are released into the Universe. The law of attraction responds to all frequencies, and so it is also responding to the words that you speak. When you use very strong words, such as "terrible", "shocking" and "horrible" to describe any situation in your life, you are sending out an equally strong frequency, and the law of attraction must respond by bringing that frequency back to you.

The law is impersonal, and simply matches your frequency. Do you see how important it is for you to speak strongly about what you want, and not to use strong words about what you don't want?

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Today I'm grateful for...

Thursday, April 29 2009
Today I'm grateful for...

  1.  ...my co-teacher asking me if I wanted anything from the store.
     
  2. ...my co-teacher making coffee & giving me a snack when I told her I was sleepy.

  3. ...the drink I got from the Kindergarten teacher.

  4. ...Joo-hye inviting me to a movie with her and her bf.

  5. ...Jason for adding me to his top 10 blogs.

  6. ...the freedom I have as a woman.

  7. ...the food I ate.

  8. ...all the inspiring and warm-hearted people that are coming into my life.

  9. ...generous comments on my blog.

  10. ...my parents & brother.
      

Monday, April 26, 2010

Today I'm grateful for...

Monday, April 26 2009
Today I'm grateful for...

  1.  ...having the energy to stay up and blog till the wee hours of the morning.
     
  2. ...waking up to face a new day and week on minimal sleep.

  3. ...the energy to teach my classes.

  4. ...a 4th grade teacher who sent me a message saying that he appreciates my teaching (his class)

  5. ...the amazing comments and emails I've received on my blogs.

  6. ...Hye-ok in the admin office giving me an umbrella.

  7. ...Mrs Ham swapping her bigger umbrella with mine.

  8. ...the e-mail and phone call from my mum telling me how proud she is of me after reading my blogs.

  9. ...having my brother to vent on this morning.

  10. ...my family & wonderful people who've come into my life in the past few months.

     

Never Forgotten

This is just unacceptable. I'm ashamed to say when I last had a blog about gratitude. I promised to do it daily, and I failed. It's never too late to get back into routine and that is what I intend to do this evening. Even though months (gasp!) have passed since I wrote a "Today I'm grateful for..." blog, there have been plenty of things I've been grateful for. I will start from this evening again.

Let me get to it!

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Today I'm grateful for...

I'm in a hotel room in Bangkok, Thailand right now. Korea will enter 2010 in about ten minutes. I'll welcome it in another two hours. I've not done my gratitude lists for a few days. But here's a list of things over the last few days.

Thursday, December 31 2009
Today I'm grateful for...
  1.  ...Mum ALWAYS listening to me.

  2. ...very kind people I met from Singapore on a tour today.

  3. ...being SAFE and ALIVE here in Bangkok.

  4. ...the  warm messages / e-mails I've received from friends.

  5. ...my family, friends and my health.

  6. ...messages of caution from friends re: Bangkok.

  7. ...SO much more, which I will blog about in detail in the next few days.

  8. ...my gut feeling screaming at me at certain things which I'll blog about later.

  9. ...the e-mail from Hye-jin telling me she's missing me in Korea.

  10. ...free Wi-Fi at hotel!

Monday, December 28, 2009

Today I'm grateful for...

Monday, December 28 2009

Today I'm grateful for...


  1.  ...walking to work safely in the snow!

  2. ...only teaching 3 classes.

  3. ...having time to prepare for Winter Camp.

  4. ...No-su helping me out again!

  5. ...having the courage to break the ice.

  6. ...walking home safely on the icy roads!

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Today I'm grateful for...

Sunday, December 27 2009

Today I'm grateful for...


  1.  ...being able to chat to my bro this morning.

  2. ...having free time to relax.

  3. ...TEFL site suggestions from DM.

  4. ...online friends for advice/tips on Bangkok.

  5. ...witnessing the beautiful snowfall today :)

  6. ...Fistaz telling me how to do a screengrab from my iPod Touch.

  7. ...central heating - it was minus 8 today!

Today I'm grateful for...

Saturday, December 26 2009

Today I'm grateful for...


  1.  ...waking up feeling refreshed.

  2. ...the weather holding up while I went to Seoul.

  3. ...the kind people at the hotel I called in Bangkok.

  4. ...my Mum for letting me use her credit card.

  5. ...having a good day in Insa-dong, Seoul.

Friday, December 25, 2009

Today I'm grateful for...

Merry Christmas, Everyone!

Friday, December 25 2009
Today I'm grateful for...

  1.  ...being able to rest all day.

  2. ...the messages I received from friends for Christmas.

  3. ...the call from my co-teacher.

  4. ...the internet.

  5. ...the food I ate.

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Today I'm grateful for...

Thursday, December 24 2009
Today I'm grateful for...


  1.  ...my classes behaving - especially since I taught alone today.

  2. ...Chang-yun canceling his 3-6 class before lunch.

  3. ...the quick massages I got.

  4. ...No-su buying my ticket.

  5. ...Hyeon-jeong ordering pizza for my after-school class.

  6. ...Mrs Park sending me a Christmas gift.

  7. ...little letters and cards from my students.

  8. ...Joo-hyeon returning my IM with a call.

  9. ...Ip from Splendia getting back to me promptly after talking on the phone.

  10. ...a text from my co-teacher saying she appreciates knowing me.

  11. ...the call from Angelina.

  12. ...my friend HYE-JIN and her husband, HONG-IL. I'll blog more about this tomorrow, but I'm so grateful for them having me over and for giving me a gift.

  13. ...Hye-jin buying vegetarian food for me.

  14. ...Yong-un for introducing me to Hye-jin and Hong-il last year on New Years eve.

  15. ....the cab driver only charging me 15,000 Won for the ride home.

  16. ...Mr Kim (my IT guy) getting out of his car to wish me & for being so lovable.

  17. ...the messages I've received from friends all over the world

  18. ...the food I ate.

  19. ...my (and my family's) health.

  20. ...you reading this :-)